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Is your relationship or marriage on the rocks? Can you feel, the waves crashing on your love affair? Lets face it we have all been there, fallen in love, felt that insane rush of happiness and were convinced this one was forever. But now as that sinking feeling takes you over you are asking the question. What went wrong? Why was he such a jerk? Your heart feeling as though someone had tied a brick to it.

It’s the end of the road for Ben and Sara; they started with so much hope. All their friends thought they were the perfect couple, and on the surface it seemed that way. Everything seemed to be going well, they were hopelessly in love and even talking about marriage so what could have possibly changed all their plans. It seemed Ben was in a relationship before Sara with a girl who cheated on him. He thought he really loved this girl so the shock and pain he felt when he caught her that day had never really left him. In fact his insecurities from the past were beginning to show.

It started with little things, like him emailing Sara at her work more often than he should, then came the questioning when she arrived home from work. At first Sara thought it was cute and a sign of his love for her. But when she came home one day later than usual she was not prepared for the encounter that followed. Ben seemed irritated as she stepped through the door and with out a hello he began accusing her of being with someone else before she could get a word out. Sara was terrified, she had never seen him like this and the events that followed on from this, forcedherto leave the house for good.

Another relationship ended almost before it had begun. What a shame Ben had not sorted his feelings of insecurity before meeting Sara. Ben was not entirely alone for Sara’s ex partner was a very jealous man and she had been on the end of his vicious attacks many a time Feeling she was in the same place she had ended their relationship and planned not to go back. When the dust had settled Sara felt so alone, she missed Ben and knew she was not going to give up without a fight. Ben was heartbroken and he blamed himself totally, he could not imagine Sara forgiving him, not for this. But Sara was positive their love could be regained it was a matter of showing each other that the past stuff was dead.

Ben and Sara are back together and working through the issues that had destroyed all their trust. They had something special and they wanted it back. Bravo to them they beat the statistics and proved you can get your ex back. By getting help that is available so much these days they were able to mend this love affair and move onto the next level. Sara emailed Ben each day until he agreed to meet her and talk. They knew upon meeting it was worth another shot.

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